Saturday, 22 May 1999

I did not get up early enough to get to the first two panels this morning. But I made it in time for lunch. I got to talk with more people at lunch and then I went to the Polyamory discussion followed by the pushing boundaries panel.

I actually had something to add to the polyamory discussion. That felt good.

I think this weekend was a huge confidence builder for me.

But lets start off with the fact that yesterday, I had mentioned to this beautiful woman that she looked like she would be very rewarding to top. Apparently she mentioned that to her husband and he tracked me down today to ask me what I wanted to do.

WOW

I let him know that I didn't know what I was doing. And he was just great. Both of them were. We ended up doing a spanking scene this evening, on one of the pool tables. It was so fucking cool. I am still getting used to this whole scene, and for me to be in a scene on my first play party (second night same weekend, is that still first?) was just way cool. They did a lot of after care with me later, letting me know that I was doing very good, I was taking the coaching, I was able to read her body. And while they would love to play with me again, he told me that I need to trust the bottom to train me. That was way cool because I could see myself getting potentially dependant on them.

Later I hit the hot tub with a woman that I had been talking to for most of the day. She and her husband were just a kick. I think I may have met them before, but I'm not sure where. But we talked for about 40 minutes in the tub, and she's looking at possibly coming to the club on a "normal" night.

I was invited to help clean up in the "morning". And I'm planning on it. I really like this community, I'm too new to see any of the political in fighting that I'm sure is in all groups. I really liked most of every thing.

 

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